sâmbătă, 25 august 2012

Cum darami munti daca ai vointa

Fiind o cititoare fidela a blogului Pofticioasei care poate fi gasit aici (gasiti o gramada de retete usoare, povestiri haioase si tipsuri utile in faimoasa lupta cu kilogramele), am citit despre Ralucuta.  Ralucuta are si ea un blog si poate fi gasit aici.

La fel ca si Pofticioasa, nu o cunosc pe Raluca, insa mi-as fi dorit si imi doresc in continuare sa am in preajma mea un om cu o astfel de vointa si putere de caracter care sa elimine (desigur, cu sacrificii), tot ceea ce nu este ok in viata acestuia. Citind despre aceasta femeie si urmarindu-i blogul sincer, curat, cu sfaturi decente si pertinente si cu o poveste care iti taie respiratia, mi-am dat seama ca de fapt si de drept, niciunul dintre noi nu are dreptul sa spuna "Nu pot", pentru ca acesta nu exista, de fapt. Este ca o holograma, daca il depasesti un pic, iti dai seama ca este inexistent. Iar eu, adolescenta (mm, mai sunt adolescenta la 20?) care a intrat pe blogul Ralucai, a spus wow, eu sunt chiar asa delesatoare? Aceasta femeie nu s-a complacut in situatia in care era si a slabit 37!! de kilograme.

Azi dimineata, citindu-i blogul, asa cum o fac in fiece zi, am citit ca Ralucuta a ajuns la greutatea NORMALA.  Sigur, isi doreste sa mai slabeasca un anumit numar de kilograme, dar pentru confortul personal, nu pentru ca nu ar fi deja ok.

Cuvintele cred ca sunt de prisos cand vorbim despre astfel de oameni minunati, imi pare teribil de bine ca am intalnit-o si este si ar trebui sa fie si pentru ceilalti o sursa de inspiratie, un monument viu de dorinta si putere! Raluca, imi pare teribil de bine ca te-am intalnit si multumesc pentru lectie!

Va las si doua poze sa vedeti incredibila transformare a Ralucutei:)


Pozele le-am furat de la Pofticioasa, care la randul ei le-a furat de pe facebook-ul Ralucutei, asa ca suntem un cerc vicios de hoate cu ganduri bune:) Hihi!

PS-IN AMBELE POZE SUNT ACEEASI PANTALONI!!!
Aveti nevoie de motivare si vointa? Click cu incredere pe linkul Ralucai!

vineri, 24 august 2012

Prezumtia de nevinovatie

Ni s-a intamplat tuturor sa auzim sau mai cu seama, sa spunem cuvinte precum "Eu nu am avut NICIO vina". Mbun, oamenii se cearta, oamenii se mai si bat (educatia primita are multe de spus aici!), arunca vorbe urate, isi fac rau total gratuit, se barfesc (pentru cele doua din urma n-are nicio importanta ca nu se cunosc, observ)

Dar ideea e urmatoarea: Niciodata, dar absolut niciodata nu este DOAR o parte vinovata. De fiecare data si cealalta parte are macar 10% de vina, fie ea un cuvant, o reactie, un gest necugetat, o jignire gratuita, samd. Pe acest principiu de fiecare data cand ma simt complet nevinovata, ma gandesc ce as fi putut face ca lucrurile sa nu iasa in acest fel, de obicei si gasesc o parte de vina (v-am spus eu ca nu poti fi complet nevinovat niciodata) si daca este cazul imi cer scuze.

Insa, asa cum sunt eu o fata foarte simpatica si am o chestie numita constiinta, de cele mai multe ori ma simt complet VINOVATA, imi dau seama ca nu e chiar asa, de fiecare data exista o vina si de partea cealalta a baricadei, pe principiu orice actiune are si o reactiune.

De altfel, cel mai comun exemplu este in relatii: "Ne-am despartit doar din vina lui/ei". Ei, ma scuzati, eu nu cumpar gogoasa asta. Nu exista.

Voi credeti in "complet vinovat"?

marți, 21 august 2012

Ceva dragut de pe tumblr


  • 1: Let’s start with a tricky one; what is the real reason you are confused right now?
  • 2: Do you ever get “good morning” texts from anyone?
  • 3: If your significant other smoked pot, would you care?
  • 4: Do you find it easy to trust others?
  • 5: What were you doing at 11PM last night?
  • 6: You’re drunk and lost walking down the road; who is with you?
  • 7: What would you do if you found out you had been cheated on?
  • 8: Are you close with your dad?
  • 9: I bet you kissed someone last night, right?
  • 10: What are you listening to?
  • 11: You can only drink ONE liquid for the rest of your life - what is it?
  • 12. Do you like hickeys?
  • 13: What time do you go to bed?
  • 14: Is there someone who continuously lets you down?
  • 15: Can you text as quickly with one hand as you do both?
  • 16: Do you always answer your texts?
  • 17: Do you hate the person you fell the hardest for?
  • 18: When was the last time you talked to one of your best friends?
  • 19: Is there someone that makes you happy every time you see them?
  • 20: What was your last thought before you went to bed last night?
  • 21: Is anyone else in the room with you?
  • 22: Do you believe what goes around comes around?
  • 23: Were you happier four months ago than you are now?
  • 24: Is there someone you wish you could fix things with?
  • 25: In the past week, have you cried?
  • 26: What colour is the shirt you are wearing?
  • 27: Do people ever call you by your last name?
  • 28: Is anyone ignoring you right now?
  • 29: Do you have a best friend?
  • 30: Would it be hard seeing someone else kiss the last person you kissed?
  • 31: Who was your last call from?
  • 32: Are you mad at anyone?
  • 33: Have you ever kissed someone older than you?
  • 34: How old will the last person you kissed be on his/her next birthday?
  • 35: How many more days until your birthday?
  • 36: Do you have any summer plans yet?
  • 37: Do you have any good friends of the opposite sex?
  • 38: Are you keeping anything from your best friend(s) now?
  • 39: Do you have a secret that you’ve never told anyone?
  • 40: Have you ever regretted kissing someone?
  • 41: Do you think age matters in relationships?
  • 42: Are you available?
  • 43: How many people have you had real, strong feelings for since high school ended?
  • 44: If you had to get a piercing (not ears), what would you get?
  • 45: Do you believe exes can be friends?
  • 46: Do you regret anything?
  • 47: Honestly, what’s on your mind right now?
  • 48: Did you ever lose a best friend?
  • 49: Was your last kiss a mistake?
  • 50: Why aren’t you pursuing the person you like?
  • 51: Has the last person you kissed ever seen you cry?
  • 52: Do you still talk with the person you LAST kissed?
  • 53: What was the last thing you ate?
  • 54: Did you get any compliments today?
  • 55: Where are you going on your next vacation?
  • 56: Do you own anything from other countries?
  • 57: Are most of your friend guys or girls?
  • 58: Where have you lived most of your life?
  • 59: When was the last time you took a long drive?
  • 60: Have you ever played Spin the Bottle?
  • 61: Have you ever TPd someone’s house?
  • 62: Who do you text the most?
  • 63: What was the last movie you saw?
  • 64: What’s preventing your current boyfriend/girlfriend from going back to their ex?
  • 65: How many boyfriends/girlfriends did you have in 2010?
  • 66: Is the last person you kissed younger than you?
  • 67: Do you curse around your parents?
  • 68: Are you happy with where you live?
  • 69: Do you collect anything?
  • 70: What’s your favourite colour?
  • 71: Does the last song you listened to remind you of anyone?
  • 72: Has anyone ever cheated on you?
  • 73: What are your plans for tomorrow?
  • 74: Do you have siblings over the age of twenty-one?
  • 75: Does your last ex have a job?
  • 76: What would you do if you found out your most recent ex was in a relationship?
  • 77: Where is your cellphone?
  • 78: What colour is your cellphone?
  • 79: What did you dream of last night?
  • 80: Are you atheist?
  • 81: Will you change your name when you get married?
  • 82: Are you ready for autumn weather?
  • 83: Have you had any big storms recently?
  • 84: What kind of bottoms are you wearing?
Si acum...vreun curajos care-si raspunde siesi?:) Eu mi-am raspuns!